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Editorial Reviews. About the Author. Grace Lebow and Barbara Kane, the co- founders of Aging Coping with Your Difficult Older Parent: A Guide For Stressed Out Children - Kindle edition by Grace Lebow, Barbara Kane, Irwin Lebow, Irwin.
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Though there's no medical defination for "difficult" parents, you know when you have one. While it's rare for adults to change their ways late in life, you can stop the vicious merry-go-round of anger, blame, guilt and frustration. For the first time, here's a common-sense guide from professionals, with more than two decades in the field, on how to smooth communications with a challenging parent.
Filled with practical tips for handling contentious behaviors and sample dialogues for some of the most troubling situations, this book addresses many hard issues, including: How to tell your parent he or she cannot live with you. How to avoid the cycle of nagging and recriminations How to prevent your parent's negativity from overwhelming you. How to deal with an impaired parent who refuses to stop driving. How to asses the risk factors in deciding whether a parent is still able to live alone.
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Other Editions 1. Friend Reviews. To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. Lists with This Book. This book is not yet featured on Listopia. Community Reviews. Showing Rating details. Sort order. Mar 02, Greta rated it really liked it Shelves: psychology. Regardless of who you're dealing with, everyone has a backstory and reasons for being the way they are. Some people will, sadly, never change.
Some will, frustratingly, get more difficult to be around the older they get. When this person is your parent, who brought you into this world and whom you are "commanded" to respect see 5 of Moses's ten , dealing with them can be a piece of work which we're not necessarily equipped to do. This book not only provides some insight into why our difficult Regardless of who you're dealing with, everyone has a backstory and reasons for being the way they are.
This book not only provides some insight into why our difficult parent is the way they are, but also gives some useful suggestions as to how we can help, if only to not make their pain, and our pain, worse.
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It encourages us to find help for ourselves when we need it, and to develop a sense of compassion for ourselves and for the person who is causing us pain. This book goes a long way to explaining that certain "typical" behaviours that some of us are subjected to, are actually rather terrible and "normal" given the person we're dealing with. And while we may not be able to change these behaviours, we can certainly choose better ways of acting, instead of reacting to them.
With this information comes power. And with power comes great responsibility. For those of us with enough awareness to read books like these, the responsibility to end trauma, abuse, and neglect when we can, will go a long way to creating a more sane and peaceful world. And it may provide some solace for someone as they near the end of their life as well, as difficult as they may be. The buck stops here.
Oct 28, Greg rated it really liked it Recommends it for: Yes. Recommended to Greg by: Cynthia. Shelves: liberation , self-help.
Aug 31, Scott Holstad rated it really liked it. This is a fairly helpful book that begins with an interesting questionnaire for you to fill out about your difficult parent.
There are 40 questions in six categories. In answering this questionnaire, if you answered 10 or fewer for your parent, they're viewed as slightly difficult, is moderately difficult, and over 20 is very difficult. I This is a fairly helpful book that begins with an interesting questionnaire for you to fill out about your difficult parent. I gave my mother a So she's very difficult. That's somewhat hard to accept because she's my mother! But she's changed as she's aged and after Dad died last year and she's a lot more difficult than she ever was before. The reason why I wrote that the book was "fairly" helpful is that it relies on a lot on role playing scenarios, which I view as only so good.
You can put yourself in this situations with your parent and memorize some of these lines and lines of thought, but if the conversation starts going outside of those boundaries, you're screwed. I don't think the book adequately addressed that. Still, it tries to address all six types of parents mentioned above and it does a pretty good job. I could see my mom in some of those scenarios and I could see myself in some of the scenarios in which I was not responding accurately.
I need to work on myself. And that's one thing I learned from this book.
No matter how frustrated you get with your difficult parent, they're more frustrated and they're not going to change, so you have to learn to become more accepting. I need to hear that, because I get easily frustrated and then I feel guilty. I really need to work on that. This was a pretty good book. It could have been bigger and better, but it was a good start in a much-ignored area, so I was grateful to have read it. Jun 14, Elizabeth rated it really liked it. This book pinpoints how culture, family structure, and family history play huge roles in the communication dynamics that occur.
It also covers elderly depression very well. Jul 15, Ken Goldman rated it really liked it.
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What I most got out of this book was an understanding that I was not alone and my experiences with my parents were not unique. It helped in the sense that I realized that I was not doing anything wrong, and that my parents were not bad people, just old. Hopefully, there are some lessons that I learned and can take with me as I age and eventually become elderly. Jul 08, Geri rated it liked it Shelves: , self-help. I guess I expected a little more from this book than the authors gave us.
Oct 02, Phyllis rated it it was ok. Starting with the assumption that not many people are choosing to read this because it's a good beach book, I'd say it might be useful if your parent is driving you absolutely nuts. The short answer seems to be, "Only if you let them. If you, like me, have a parent who's not perfect as if we are , it's kind of useful if you're just looking for stories of parents who really are a little wacko.
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